this is an interesting statement and i can see whe...

this is an interesting statement and i can see where it is coming from, but i don't think i agree. i am a planner by nature and sometimes my desire to plan and control is a sin. but sometimes planning is just using common sense. if you consider this statement to be true about "planning" children then it would also be true about anything else that God gives us, which is essentially everything. i too agree that God is bigger than our attempt to control anything!